I was standing in my small company and asked my longtime employee if she had noticed anything about me lately?

Her answer hit me like an arrow: “You’re always in such a good mood!”

Zack, in a flash I realized the facade I had put up around myself to keep everyone else happy. So as not to be seen as weak, to be a good boss, the ideal daughter who has no problems.

I smiled, said thank you, turned around and quickly went to my office. I could feel the tears welling up inside me and running down my face.

How could it have come to this?

Because inside me, things looked really sh…:

• It had been a long time since I’d enjoyed things that had excited me before.
• Trapped in a job that I had chosen out of a sense of security.
• Short nights full of racing thoughts.
• Overwhelmed by all the demands of life.
• And no partner in sight because I attracted men who felt intimidated by an independent woman.

It took me a long time to understand that I wanted to please everyone else so as not to offend anyone. I twisted myself to be liked. In all areas of life. I didn’t even know what I really wanted anymore. I chose the job that my parents thought was best. In the early years, my office door was always open to everyone. I was always understanding and hardly ever dared to stick to my own resolutions.

At the time, I had no idea that all of this would lead to something wonderful.

Because today I live a fulfilled, free life. Not always perfect, but:

• I work in my dream job as a life coach & personality stylist.
• I know who I really am and what makes me who I am.
• I am grateful for loving, positive relationships.
• I communicate my point of view openly, honestly and without fear.
• I see change as a challenge and growth.
• I am truly me!
• And you know what the best thing is? Helping other people out of the rat race and into a happy life with Truly Me Coaching.

The Truly Me method is a strengths- & solution-oriented approach that does not get lost in endless, backward-looking therapies. Instead of dwelling on the past, you learn to consciously recognize and use your personal strengths. With specially developed techniques that specifically transform your feelings and thought processes, this method enables you to make quick and lasting changes – so that you notice success in a very short time and find your true self.

• Would you also like to get out of the “people pleasing trap”?
• Finally lead your own happy life with courage?
• To align yourself calmly with your inner compass instead of worrying about the perceptions of others?

Then get in touch with me.